J ust as flames will expire without fuel, a child will counsel the father but will not abandon him because they form one inter-reliant whole. The Analects of Confucius says, ‘When serving parents, we should offer counsel often with a caring voice.’ It continues, ‘We should always be respectful to them and not act contrary to their wishes if proper.’ candle quote 7601 | The Bai Hu Tong share